Flinders University. Australia: While most parents might think they know the answer, research suggests this age-old question, in fact, remains mostly unanswered.
In response, and as ABS statistics indicate the number of children 
born in Australia has been on the rise over the past decade, researchers
 from Flinders University want to examine the drivers behind the biggest
 decision most people ever make.
Dr Damien Riggs, who is an Australian Research Council Future Fellow 
at Flinders, wants to discover the hopes and aspirations which drive 
parenting – and whether or not the reality lives up to the hype.
“We really want to try and understand how men and women experience 
the wish to have a child, how this is shaped by their own family 
experiences, and how couples plan for and negotiate having children,” 
said Dr Riggs.
“Many Australian couples are choosing to have children in their late 
30s, while other couples are choosing to marry and have children in 
their early 20s.
“These differing choices possibly indicate some of the different 
values and hopes that couples place upon having children, and these are 
the kinds of areas we really want to explore.”
Dr Riggs believes his team’s research could inform how we understand 
family planning into the future, and even influence the future provision
 of services which are more responsive to the real needs of new and 
future parents.
“It is a little too late to begin talking with people about their 
beliefs about children and parenting once they have already had 
children,” Dr Riggs said.
“We are suggesting that outcomes for parents and children might be 
improved if service providers can have discussions with people ahead of 
time, and help them to think ahead about the realities of the journey to
 come”.
Dr Riggs’ team is currently recruiting South Australian heterosexual 
couples planning for a first child. Couples who match that description, 
and who are willing to be interviewed about their experiences, can find 
more information at www.australianparentingstudy.com or by calling 08 8201 2786.
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